Billie Becker is just shy of 22 years and nine months of sexual experience (including conception and creation, the most important sexual aspect of her life). She considers her youth a tool and is grateful to be decades ahead of her female peers in terms of sexual education. While most women are told never to touch themselves, it was the one area in which Billie would always rebel.
Billie Becker
She touts that she has had a “perfectly normal number” of partners; but scrutinizes the obsession with which people assume that to be sexually liberated is equivalent to not being sexually selective. “It’s really quite the opposite, the more I know about my own sexuality, the more selective I have become,” says Billie, “I’ve been in a completely happy and monogamous relationships before, but the frustrating part is that people care about the number of sexual partners I, or their partner, or anyone else has had. Sexual safety has always been a bigger concern to me”. She thinks it’s more important to ask, “How safe have you been? Have you been tested? Recently? What were the results?” than “ How many people have you been with?”
In her perspective, Billie believes that everything humans do is innately driven by their sexuality. What is the meaning of life? “Sex.” What makes you get up in the morning? “Sex.” What made you want to pursue your dreams? “Sex.” Why is your hair red? “Sex.” Okay okay, we got it, but why? “This is the part where I nerd out and all my readers assume I’m a sex addict, but it’s only half true. Take any single thing you do in your life and try to figure out why you’re doing it; for example, lets say you’re going to College. Why? Because if you go to college you’ll hopefully wind up with a higher paying job. Why would you want a higher paying job? Because you want to increase your status and be able to afford a home and nice things. Why would you want that? Because an increase in status is equal to an increase in sexual appeal and the family that results from your sexy status will need a place to live.”
But isn’t that over-simplified?
“Of course it is, but it shows the connection that all aspects of our life have to do with sexuality. Why do we workout? Sure it feels good and some of us prefer to be healthy, but if you ask most people, it’s simply to look good. It’s why a lot of us learn, or take up hobbies, or even why we get sad. And even though our very existence depends on sex, our society has deemed it a social evil”.
So what do you plan to do about that?
“I plan to continue what I’m doing; educating myself, my friends, and anyone who is willing to listen about the power of their sexuality. Teaching sexual health and safety so it can be done without harm and with a lot of benefit. Most of all I’m trying to break the barriers that allow us to enjoy our sexuality and acknowledge it as a fundamental part of our everyday existence.”
What can we plan to see from you on the blog?
“ Everything that involves sex, so a little bit of everything. I’ve started the blog with sexual education and sexual finesse to get the ball rolling and address overtly sexual topics. I did this to break the biggest barrier first, which is that it’s not okay to talk about sexual pleasure. But my blog will cover everything that I see as being sexually important, including health, stress, relationships, attraction, food, dating, self-education, adventures, hobbies, and even some of my personal experiences”.
To Contact Billie Becker Send All Requests And Questions To Beasexpert@gmail.com