Comments on: 3 Ways To Instantly Up Your Game

By: EUROguy85

EUROguy85 — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 10:45:46 +0000

FIRST, I just came across as I was google-ing and youtube-ing for sex tips, ’cause I’ve been single now for over 2 years and I think at the age of 25 it’s about time I find someone worth spending more than a couple of hours with.
Thanks to all for their input, but, the tips in the blog will not work on anyone drunk, they are too inebriated to notice the signs.
Also, when talking to women I do look at them in the eye because as the blog mentions it is a way of letting them know that we are attracted, but it is polite to look at the person you are conversing with as a tradition where I come from. That is not my problem.
My problem is that you call it a game changer, these are the factors that people look at when trying to find a mate or the alpha person in the crowd, this is not a game, it’s an interview for a very long and strenuous and hard working job. Being with someone for a long time is no walk in the park.
NOW, I will get to my REAL problem I have with women; I am a twenty-five year old male, undergrad degree in pol-sci and employed. Physically, I have not been to the gym in more than six or seven years, the reason, when I first joined the gym, the trainer that assessed me told me that my body type is of a swimmer, I will never accumulate mass on my muscles and my six pack will not look that of Schwarzenegger or Stallone when they were at the top of their game, I do not look like Leo DiCaprio so no boy charms. Where do I fit? I am a normal, average guy.
Perfect example, after lunch, I go to this coffee shop and always get the same thing, so the baristas there kind of know me; I really like one of them, but I do not know exactly what to say to her. She is good looking, and she knows it, so I can’t state the obvious. Also, they always work in pairs or sometimes three and if I ask her out the others might feel left out, and maybe that puts too much pressure on the girl of my attention, and she might say no to make the others feel comfortable, do I just hand out my number to her and let her decide, will that not make me look emasculated, to give her control. What kind of alpha F***ing male would I be?
On today’s single market, it is easier for me to find a woman on the internet than in person, I can tell everything she needs to know before she even meets me. On every website that I signed, I have been able to tell them everything about my personality and other things, how much I make, how much I’m worth and where have I been and traveled and what properties I own. And guess what, women like the men that make shit-loads of money, real estate, dotcom, etc…, but I have that gut feeling that the only thing attracting them is my net worth, not my personality. Every date I’ve been, I have rejected all of them and they were F***ing beautiful, seXXXY,gorgeous adn everything men desire in a woman, but so fucking shallow and stupid. E_HARMONY AND DATEMATCH don’t work for shit, I did not see any professional women on those websites.

So to the genii that decided to leave their comments above, I ask that you help with my problem, what do I do to attract a woman that just sees me as a customer, where do I begin the journey of making this woman wanna be with me?

By: Viridius

Viridius — Fri, 05 Aug 2011 11:48:49 +0000

My 2c when meeting new women: Don’t try to hard, or you will look needy, which is kind of a turnoff for women.

By: Peter

Peter — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 06:49:10 +0000

Ok…. so Tayvia and Jennie clearly didn’t pick up on the sarcasm in my last post.

By: Jennie

Jennie — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:43:37 +0000

Any smart, confident, educated girl will be able to tell when you’re trying “pick-up artist” tactics like subtly putting her down… Tat advice is misleading. There is a difference between acting like a lovesick puppy-pushover and a confident man, but I know with me putting me down isn’t going to get you anywhere (this guy is so insecure that he needs to try make ME feel even more insecure than him), unless it was playful teasing/flirting.

By: Tayvia

Tayvia — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 04:42:16 +0000

WHOA WHOA WHOA! Isolation can lead to her being uncomfortable and FREAKED. It’s good to get her complete attention, but taking her completely from the eyesight of the pack may lead her to the idea that you are going to rape her instead of flirt with her. And NEVER start with a putdown. That will get you nothing but the the door. On the contrary, start with a compliment, but don’t overdue it. Kudos on the name thing though, it shows that your interested enough to know her name and not just what the inside of her apartment looks like.

By: Peter

Peter — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 00:20:27 +0000

Another three ways to up your game: First, isolate her from her friends. Second, be constantly saying her name, and third, subtly put her down.

By: RayatUM

RayatUM — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 00:23:54 +0000

Grr! I am so frustrated with the amount of hot guys I turn down simply because they are not privy to these simple laws of attraction. Marketing is my primary focus when examining a potential mate (just go with it ); confidence is key! I prefer a so-so with great marketing skills to a frumpy, unconfident TEN any day. Thanks for educating our male population in the fine art of marketing! Hopefully the next ten user has read this!